times, and I’ve come to realize that there are
really some reasons why people decide to remain
single in life due to some issues they’ve
encountered in one way or the other, ranging from
breakups and dishonesty in relationships.
Irrespective of the dictums outlined in religious
texts and principles about the importance of
marriage; the decision whether to go in for one or
to remain single is essentially personal in nature
where the questions of scriptures or rules of
theologians should not come into play. This is
particularly true of the current situation marked
by extremes of stress, strain and struggle; in spite
of all its technology savvy benefits.
With much thrust upon competition and rat race;
a man’s common place existence is one of
extreme struggle and strain. This in turn is
working havoc on marital and other relationships
based on close bonding and trustfulness.
Sometimes the sheer apprehension that things
may not work out fine on home front has
compelled people desirous of climbing up the
social order to stay single.
People with a sharp or obsessive focus on career
and personal growth often prefer staying single
rather than bracing up to the duties and
obligations of marriage. Paucity of time and
personal inability to share and care keep them
away from relationships and marriage.
Other than social and economic factors, there are
people who preferred singularity over marital
status on account of their lack of commitment.
Rather than going for the hassles of serious
relationships leading to marriage or live in stands,
certain carefree and happy go lucky individuals
choose to remain single.
It is true that humans, a part of the civilized
society long for and cherish freedom. But it is
equally important to note that there are ones
including both men and women who cherish
freedom to the point of selfishness. It is
important or rather imperative that they stay
single on account of their inflexibility and ill
adjustability to come around to share and care for
others. So the inability to compromise and need
for absolute freedom from interference or
disciplining goad people to stay single.
Just as inability to share emotionally can be
problematic for some, leading them to the choice
of singularity; likewise inability to share
financially can be a possible reason. With over
magnified stories of spouses nagging for money
and possession doing the rounds; the choice of
better management of financial prospects keep
people specially men away from marriage.
People staunchly egoistical without the ability to
change or modify often choose to remain single.
With their all encompassing ego being
predominantly effective, such folks are unable to
come around or modify to the ways of better
halves or partners.
Marriages leading to divorce or relationships
leading to break ups is one of the well trodden
phenomenon. With far reaching repercussions any
form of break up or separation can turn out to be
tremendously heart wrenching. If one is not into a
relationship of the serious order, one need not
worry or anticipate such a turn of event. Thus
fear of separation or one exposed to too many
separations in the formative years of childhood
may give way to fears and mental blocks about
marriage.
In spite of there being too many moral inhibitions
about indulging in sexual activities involving
multiplicity of partners, similar orientation
involving different partners is a well established
reality. People beyond the bounds of marriage or
serious partnership often take the advantage of
their self inflicted singularity so as to indulge in
sexual revelry. Even married ones may be equally
guilty. But the fact that o
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